姐妹们来讨论一下同居这个问题吧!!!

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  • a true story

    I want to tell all of you a true story in China

    A man divoiced and he has children. His ex-wife remarried and he lives with a young lady who is 30 years younger than her. The lady is not beautiful, or well educated, or very smart or rich. The man on the other hand, has many experiences, including experiences on the bed.

    The man boasted all the time about his daughter who is an immigrant in Canada, though his daughter seldom talked to him since he divoiced. He also makes the whole world know that he is to immigrate to Canada soon, as in Chinese'perception, immigration is like going to the heaven.

    Why would he be stupid to marry the lady? With a green card, he can find any rich/young ladies who dream of coming to Canada. But he would not leave the lady, as he needs sex too.

    Could i say that human being is selfish? I guess that it takes confidence to face living before marriage. I dare not believe in love.
     

    andy

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    你很无聊!也很可怜!
     

    Melody

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    嗯!
    要想真正走入婚姻的殿堂长相守,还是得试试同居!!
    虽然花烛夜少了新鲜感,但心里踏实呀.
     

    蝶舞

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    最初由 andy 发布
    你很无聊!也很可怜!
    其实一直都很想说你,你真的不是普通得无聊,你是不是真得那么有时间啊!说别人英语不好,你呢?连"china"都可以拼错,你算是可怜到家了,你还配是中国人吗????
     

    麦琪

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    发现一个现象,大多过来人(已婚)都赞成或不反对婚前同居。
    对狗宝宝的成功与不成功的说法,我的看法是:如果同居后发现对方不是自己的理想伴侣,结束同居生活,也不见得是不成功,看清一个人就是收获。总比结婚后发现不合适又离婚强把。
    不过一切都是缘分,有的人有同居的缘分,有的人没有,不必强求个个相同。
     

    小白~小白

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    其实一直都很想说你,你真的不是普通得无聊,你是不是真得那么有时间啊!说别人英语不好,你呢?连"china"都可以拼错,你算是可怜到家了,你还配是中国人吗????
    你装什么,你懂不懂英语啊。我在自.(希腊)开俄斯(岛)的,呢还是回国学学英语吧
     

    小白~小白

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    谁用了我的留言了啊??????????????????真他妈的
     

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    I want to tell all of you a true story in China

    A man divoiced and he has(had ) children. His ex-wife remarried and he lives(ed) with a young lady who is(was) 30 years younger than her(him). The lady is(was) not beautiful, or well educated, or very smart or rich. The man on the other hand, has(had) many experiences, including experiences on the bed.

    The man boasted all the time about his daughter who is an immigrant in Canada, though his daughter seldom talked to him since he divoiced. He also makes(made) the whole world know that he is(was going) to immigrate to Canada (very)soon,(.) (As) as in Chinese'perception, immigration is like going to the heaven.

    Why would he be stupid to marry the lady? With a green card, he can find any rich/young ladies who dream of coming to Canada. But he would not leave the lady, as he needs sex too.

    Could i(I) say that human being is selfish? I guess that it takes confidence to face (the) living before marriage. I (am not dare to) believe in love.

    many mistakes still need to be adjusted.
     

    冰の酸梅汤

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    自我感觉,同居之前要先了解清楚怎样是最好避孕的方法是主要的,这样对女孩子才算公平点!
     

    MARCO

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    避孕教育在加拿大搞得不错, 在中国就。。。
     

    大熊猫

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    我非常同意sage的观点,但我是男的,你们肯定说男的当然同意了。所以我先不说我同意sage的观点,咱们站在高一点的地方谈谈这个问题。
    讨论的焦点在于:1。同居后分手(男方提出),是不是女方的损失?

    如果你说是,我再问你:2。结婚后分手(男方提出),是不是女方的损失?
    如果你说是,那你还是一个人呆着吧。如果说不是,我想你不太可能说不是。

    所以答案是,说是的同居没有问题,说不是的结了婚也不一定会幸福。言重了,得罪之处,见谅。
     

    小白~小白

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    和据我这几十年来的观察,着提问题有利无弊
     

    大熊猫1

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    哪位MM先让我体验体验同居
    然后我再发表观点
    行不行啊?
     
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